The ideal
of "a family" is one of the most basic models of what
a better world can be like. In a perfect family, the members are
joined by bonds of love; they help each other meet all of their
physical and emotional needs. Of course no family is perfect,
but a family that strives together to become a "family for
a better world" can help each member to feel more fulfilled
and better about themselves and the world. They also provide a
real-life example of how the human family can work together to
create a better world.
The first
step to becoming a "Better World Family" is to decide
to become one. It will be an ongoing learning experience with
lots of mistakes. You'll need all of the tools you've learned
as peacebuilders. You might decide to set a regular time to discuss
and work out family problems and issues. You'll want to make sure
that you show your concern and encouragement for each other, regularly.
You'll need to let things go and apologize and accept apologies
and make amends when apologies aren't enough. You're a team and
you want to work it out. You may decide to work together on projects
for a better world as a way to strengthen your dedication.
In
1993, the United Nations General Assembly decided that 15 May
of every year should be observed as the International Day of Families
(resolution 47/237 of 20 September). In 1989, by resolution 44/82,
the Assembly had proclaimed 1994 the International Year of the
Family, to increase awareness of family issues and improve the
capability of nations to tackle family-related problems with comprehensive
policies.
In
the United States, Family Day is also observed on September 26
by Presidential Proclamation.